Features September 2012 Issue

Living With Dogs Who Suffer From Severe Separation Anxiety

Severe SA can be devastating for owners who fail to build and maintain a support system.

I get several calls a week from people whose dogs are suffering with varying degrees of separation anxiety. The dogs may exhibit mild isolation distress, where they are uncomfortable at being left alone; a severe form of anxiety, where they go into a full-blown panic when left alone; or anything in between.

Siam Sam (right) and two other dogs are spotted by WFFT animal rescue workers in the second-story window of a flooded and unfinished building, where they had taken shelter from floodwaters in Thailand. Photo by Emma Carter.

Separation anxiety is a serious condition. Dogs suffering from the more severe forms may salivate, pace, bark, howl, and/or urinate and defecate in panic. They can destroy cars, homes, and possessions at an incredible rate, and dig and chew their way out of windows and doors. They sometimes resort to self-mutilation when left alone. Just think about how intensely frightened you’d have to be to lose the contents of your bowels when left alone, or to rip out the walls of a room to escape. These dogs are suffering immensely and miserably. They need help from a patient and understanding owner – and the owner needs professional guidance from an experienced, educated trainer who understands the behavior and the necessary steps to overcome it. What I didn’t realize until early this year was that, in order to help a dog triumph over a severe manifestation of this condition, extraordinary support for his owner is absolutely crucial.

Never Imagined This
I learned this the hard way: first-hand. Though I had no intention of doing so, I adopted a dog that I had cared for at an animal refugee shelter in Thailand. Siam Sam was one of hundreds of street dogs left behind in an evacuated city about 50 miles north of Bangkok. His was one of the cities hardest-hit by record floodwaters. The human residents had been evacuated from the disaster zone, but the abandoned dogs – street dogs as well as family pets – were left behind and had nowhere to go to get away from floodwaters. They climbed onto any surface that was above the water level.

Sam is given food by a rescuer; shortly afterward, he and the other dogs in the flooded building were captured, sedated, taken by boat to a truck, and transported to a makeshift shelter for evacuated animals, where Sandi Thompson first met him. Photo by Emma Carter.

Sam and several other dogs were spotted by an animal rescue team organized by Soi Dogs and the Wildlife Friends Foundation Thailand (WFFT) and photographed as they peered out from the second-story window of an unfinished building. It was their safety zone from the floods, but there was no food and they were facing certain death by starvation or disease, not to mention being easy targets for poachers of the dog meat trade. Sam was one of the lucky ones rescued and evacuated to a shelter.

I met Sam in one of these emergency shelters in Thailand when I went there to do relief work. He was one of hundreds of dogs housed in a cattle quarantine facility with four or more dogs to a stall. I can’t say exactly why, amidst all of the hardship in the shelter, Sam stood out to me. He made me laugh every day. He was silly, but in a noble kind of way, like he was clowning around to lighten the mood for the other dogs and the volunteers. He didn’t seem to be affected the same way a lot of other dogs were; as the days of close quarters in the shelter stretched into weeks, many of the dogs got more and more stressed. Fights broke out constantly. Several dogs succeeded in chewing their way through the bars in efforts to escape; some withdrew and shut down. Sam seemed calm in comparison; he smiled and did something goofy each time I went inside his stall.

t was grueling work to take care of hundreds of dogs in such a crude facility in sweltering heat, with just a handful of volunteers – and yet Sam was able to make me smile every day. He began to really grow on me and I knew I’d miss him the most.

Two days before I was to fly home, I went inside Sam’s stall for the nighttime feeding and he grabbed onto my waist with both paws, buried his head in my hip and wouldn’t let go. He repeated this behavior every time I went into his kennel for the next two days. I knew that dogs who were unclaimed a few weeks after the cities were repopulated would be returned to those city streets – and I found that I simply could not leave Sam to an uncertain future on the streets of Thailand. I made arrangements to have Sam shipped to me if he wasn’t claimed.

About 30 days later I flew to Los Angeles and met him at the airport. I was excited to see him again, but concerned about how he survived the flight. Sam was visibly shaken from the 20-plus hour flight and I couldn’t tell if he recognized me or not. He had become quite thin since the last time I saw him and he had lost a lot of hair. Since I said goodbye to him in Thailand, he had been moved to two different shelters while waiting to get his papers in order. He was well looked after, but I think his mental state deteriorated from all of the stress. I rented a luxury sedan so that he would be as comfortable as possible and Siam Sam and I drove home to Berkeley, California.

I spent the next week or so slowly getting him used to living in a house. He was afraid of being indoors and walking through any kind of doorway. He was happiest outside, so we spent a lot of time going into and coming out of the house. I offered him his choice of three different sizes and shapes of comfy plush beds and he chose to curl up on the cold floor each and every night (now he will not even consider sleeping on any bed less than six inches thick!).

Once it seemed that he was getting comfortable, I decided to leave him (and my other dog) for about 20 to 30 minutes while I went to the store. This was a big mistake. I should have tested a shorter absence first. I came home to the frightening spectacle of Sam hysterically screaming and frantically panting. His forelegs were bloody and his pupils dilated. The kitchen doors and windows had claw and teeth marks indicating where he tried to escape. Curtains were chewed and fecal matter was spread all over the floor and walls. My heart sank – but I hoped that it was a short-term problem that I had caused by leaving him too soon and for too long.

I tried again a couple of days later, but this time it was an experiment, rather than a real departure. He had been crated a lot during his stay in the shelters in Thailand and had been fine, so I thought he might do better in a crate. I put him in a crate with a food-stuffed toy, walked out of the house and spied on him from a window. His reaction was immediate and heart-wrenching to observe. He again became hysterical and frantically tried to chew through the bars, and then started chewing his legs. All this within minutes.

I was stunned. I knew he might have a hard time adjusting to his new life and that it would take patience, time, and understanding – and I was totally on board for that. But I wasn’t prepared for the severity of his disorder, and I wasn’t prepared for the hardship of helping him overcome this affliction. The first couple of times I left Sam were hell for him. My hell began after that.

New But Familiar
I have helped hundreds of owners of dogs with mild separation anxiety (SA). I could probably recite in my sleep the steps that an owner needs to take in order to modify mild to moderate SA behaviors. However, when a client came to me with a dog who had a moderate to severe case, I would refer them to another trainer. It’s not that I felt I was unqualified to help owners through this process; I understood the theoretical steps to modify the behavior. Honestly, it was that I couldn’t imagine standing in their shoes.

Seriously. I couldn’t fathom never leaving a dog alone throughout the lengthy training process and making all the difficult life changes necessary. Rehabilitating a dog suffering from severe SA may require months of painfully incremental steps of desensitizing the dog to his fear of being left alone and/or confinement. During this tedious process the dog should never be left alone. I couldn’t picture myself spending hours each week of mindlessly dull, repetitive desensitizing departures with the dog’s success measured in seconds! So how could I advise someone else to do it?

Well, that was then; this was now. Now I was the owner of a dog with severe SA. I needed to get over regretting Sam’s adoption and feeling sorry for myself and get to work.
Here is what I knew I needed to do, and what I immediately started doing for Sam:

-Made an appointment with a veterinarian, to make sure he was well and didn’t have a health problem that could be contributing to the issue – and, just as importantly, to get a prescription for an anti-anxiety medication for Sam.

-Increased his daily exercise.

-Started “alone” training, to begin helping him to be comfortable away from me. (I have another dog, but as in most severe SA cases, Sam couldn’t have cared less whether my other dog was home with him or not; he was anxious about being away from humans.) We worked particularly on minuscule stays, “go to your place,” and rewarding calm behavior.
Started using counter-conditioning, by giving him food-stuffed Kong toys to work on while I was in another room.

Thank goodness for stores that allow dogs inside. Shopping online can get you only so far!

-Started desensitizing pre-departures and departures, getting him accustomed to my leaving. I endlessly picked up my keys and walked toward the door – and returned. Tediously. Until we were both exhausted and bored with it.

-Used any “can’t hurt/might help” remedies I could think of, including the flower essence remedy called Rescue Remedy, “dog appeasing pheromones” (DAP), a Thundershirt, and the calming music CD Through a Dog’s Ear.

-Used “shaping” exercises such as “101 things to do with a box,” to encourage him to engage his brain and offer behaviors that I could reward. I did not want him to always look to me for a cue; I wanted to encourage his independent thinking.

-Resisted cuddling and “babying” Sam because I didn’t want his attachment to me to become even stronger. And I didn’t want to reinforce his anxious behavior.

And Then There Were My Needs
I also had to modify my own life quite a bit so that Sam was never left alone. I knew the drill too well: from this moment forward, until he was well on his way to being cured, I would not be able to leave him alone, not ever. My life had just changed dramatically. I was now standing in those shoes that I could not imagine being in before. I was about to enter into an undetermined period of isolation from friends and family, endless hours of desensitizing protocols, ordering all my supplies and groceries online, and the hardest part for me: relying on others for help.

I called a friend of mine who specializes in SA and pleaded with her to help me. I felt dazed by the colossal tasks I was facing and I needed someone to get me started. “Get a support system in place,” she said. “You cannot do this alone.”

I was daunted by what lay before me, but I had no choice. I didn’t want to ask for help, but I knew she was right: I couldn’t do this alone. I have a training business to run, and couldn’t possibly take him with me to every class I taught. I had to find some paid and volunteer dog-sitters; I couldn’t afford to pay professionals for all the time I needed sitters!

I sent out a somewhat dramatic email asking for help (I was in a panic!) to a group of friends – and was amazed to find several patient people willing to watch him on a regular schedule while I worked. I organized a different sitter for each day I was gone so as not to put too much strain on one person; I needed these people to be in it for the long haul.

Not all of the sitters worked out. I had to find people Sam was comfortable with and who I could trust to keep him safe from any extra stress. It was critical that he never be left alone, that he never be punished or stressed or else it would cause a major setback. I had to find people who understood Sam’s condition and took this seriously. Some people don’t understand the severity of the condition, or believe that it’s just attention-seeking behavior, boredom, or “brattiness.”

Two close friends dog-sit Sam on Thursday nights, and prepare elaborate Thai meals to share afterward. They called this event “Thursday Night Ditch and Dine,” and it helped keep Sandi sane.

Oddly though, I felt that I could understand the sensation of pure panic suffered by dogs with severe SA, like Sam. One summer when I was about 5 years old, my brother and I were playing around with an old cedar chest. We loved looking at the old photographs and keepsakes my mother kept inside. At one point my brother suggested that I climb inside it and report to him how dark it was once the lid was closed. I remember protesting but then decided it was safe when he crossed his heart, hoped to die, and swore to God he wouldn’t lock it. Click. It locked automatically and the key was long lost.

I became panic-stricken. I screamed and kicked and pounded with my fists from the inside. I heard my brother yelling for help as he desperately tried to pry open the lid. My fear grew worse with every moment I was trapped inside. Extreme panic suffocated me; I felt that I couldn’t breathe. I began to try and claw my way out with my bare hands. I will never forget the uncontrollable fear that overtook my mind and body during this incident. It was more than just being scared; it was sheer terror.

This, I imagine, must be close to what a dog with severe SA feels when left alone. I was trapped in that chest for probably five minutes. Most dogs with SA are left alone for 8 to 10 hours a day, five days a week, and for many weeks or months before their owners seek help. Unimaginable! The lucky ones have an owner who finds a trainer or behaviorist who understands the disorder and can coach them through treating and modifying the behavior.
Most, unfortunately, will get bad advice from all sorts of people (trainers included) who do not understand this complex condition, causing the behavior to get worse, and will end up being relinquished to a shelter and/or euthanized.

In the past few months, I’ve heard stories from other owners of SA dogs who have been advised to crate the dogs and rap sharply on the crate when the dog screams or paws at the cage walls; to spray the caged dog with water; to use a shock collar to “interrupt” the anxious behaviors; and more. It makes my skin crawl to hear these stories, and to imagine how this treatment must make a dog feel when he is already blind with panic and terror.

The Toll On The Owner
I am incredibly blessed to have such a wide circle of dog-loving friends, who became Sam’s “staff” and looked after him so I could do the bare minimum of work away from home. But because I wanted to minimize how much I had to lean on these valued friends, I cancelled everything else that required me leaving the house without Sam. I stopped making appointments for private consultations with training clients. I also stopped going to the gym, hair appointments, movies, dinner out, and gatherings with friends. I cancelled all my doctor and dentist appointments and professional meetings. I couldn’t even go to the store! I ordered all of my groceries and supplies online.

I remember one pathetic moment when I ran out of a few things and my next delivery wasn’t due for several days; a friend brought a tube of toothpaste to my workplace for me. I felt very isolated and depressed. My friends slowly stopped including me in get-togethers and I missed five important milestone birthday celebrations of close friends. It seemed at times I would never lead a normal life again. I felt trapped in my own home.

I kept it up, however; I was fully committed to this dog! I was the one who brought him here – I had to see him through it! If behavior modification protocols to treat SA are not followed carefully and correctly, the dog will suffer and have major setbacks.

Here are the things I put into place during this period:

-I found and frequented only the stores/places that allow dogs; for groceries and other things available only where dogs are not allowed, I found stores that would make deliveries.

-I set up a rotating schedule of dog-sitters for Monday, Thursday night, Saturday, and Sunday, during the hours that I teach dog-training classes. (Kim, a a friend who is from Thailand, and her husband Vince, offered to dog-sit Sam on Thursday nights, and began a tradition of cooking an elaborate Thai meal that would be ready to share with me – and Sam! – when I got home from teaching my night classes. We started calling this event our Thursday night “Ditch and Dine.” Their kindness, generosity, and gracious company brought me to grateful tears many times.)

-I used Web cameras (and later, a program on my iPhone) to monitor Sam’s behavior when I stepped outside my front door, so I could calmly return before he had even a few seconds of anxiety about my absence. In this way, I could stretch my “departures” out as long as possible, without risking a setback.

An early meeting of Sandi’s “SA Support Group” (and their dogs, of course!) at a local pub. The group also communicates via a Facebook page, to encourage and help each other through difficult times.

-I turned down invitations to anything where my dog was not allowed (missing events with friends/family).

-I kept Sam safe from stress.

I was videotaping each “departure” training session so that I could go back and watch to make sure his body language was calm while I was outside the door. Live streaming also made it possible for my trainer friend who specializes in SA to log in and watch the footage on her computer, too. It was helpful to have an extra pair of eyes and I welcomed her opinion. It was really important to have her validate my progress and keep my sanity in check.

After a month of practicing every day, I had tediously worked my way up to 90 seconds – a minute and a half when I could consistently walk out the front door and not have Sam become anxious. Then, suddenly, our progress was stopped in its tracks. Sam was diagnosed with an aggressive form of cancer and needed 6 to 8 weeks of chemotherapy. He had an 80 percent chance of remission with this treatment, so it was a no-brainer for us. However, this was a big setback for our SA work and he had major regression. It was extremely stressful for him to have chemo, and for the next two full months, Sam made no progress whatsoever. He obviously felt unwell, and even with his daily Prozac, he was clingy and anxious.

This was incredibly disheartening and depressing for me. My spirits were pretty low at that point. I felt like I had wasted three months of tedious work in total isolation, and I was daunted by the process of starting over from scratch. I was also terrified that I was going to lose my support system. My wonderful dog sitters had already been on the job for three months and now I was back to square one. I was going to lose my mind!

I was lonely, trapped in my own home, and I was tired of being misunderstood. People in my life who were supportive at first were also starting to become skeptical. “Why is it taking so long? You’re being neurotic and making it worse. Just leave him and go to the store, for goodness’ sake. He’ll snap out of it!” I didn’t want to get out of bed in the morning. I couldn’t face another day of it.

Support In Numbers
Then, one day, I came to the realization that if I, a seasoned trainer, was feeling this way, how on earth do other people who have SA dogs cope? I knew of at least four students in my regular classes who were struggling with SA dogs. They had heard me talk about Sam in class and confided in me that they, too, were battling this problem. That’s when I decided I should start a support group for people with SA dogs – and it was the best thing I’ve ever done.

I found a nearby pub with a large outdoor area and a dog-friendly manager, and invited those clients to join me for drinks and sympathy. We had a great time at the first get-together and word began to spread. Many people found out about it and pleaded to join. I then started a Facebook group so we can support each other in between pub meetings.

My SA Support Group is comprised of people who are all dealing with or have dealt with a dog with SA. It’s important to understand that the unpleasant feelings are normal, that we aren’t alone, that we are not going crazy, and it will get better. We listen to each other’s struggles and encourage each other to carry on. We congratulate the tiny successes as the major milestones that they really are! Who else is going to get excited about a 30-second increase in the dog’s ability to stay home alone?

The group makes the struggle less of a struggle. Even though I’m a dog trainer, and often find myself giving dog-training advice to others in the group, I can honestly say that our meetings are as therapeutic for me as they are for anyone. I was going bonkers from the lack of socializing! A support group makes the experience far less isolating and validates the hard work that we all do. It also is a big relief that no one is judging us, and we can talk freely without the worry of being labeled as obsessive or neurotic. We all look forward to it; it’s fun and it gives us fuel to carry on. Some of us have already won the race and we find satisfaction in helping others still struggling through it.

It astonishes me that, in my 20-plus years of dog training, I haven’t seen a serious discussion of how life-altering (in a bad way!) dealing with a SA dog can be. One of my fellow “SA club” members (interestingly, another dog training professional who rehabilitated his own dog with severe SA) baldly stated, “It can drive grown men to tears.” The fact that this condition is generally misunderstood by most people can further add to feelings of isolation.

It baffles me, because this is such an important piece of the puzzle. If the owner, who is already isolated, confused, and distraught about the situation, is not getting support, then she won’t be motivated to continue with the lengthy training required to get the dog past his fear. If she doesn’t do the work, then the dog doesn’t get better. If the dog doesn’t get better, the owner is miserable, the dog gets returned to the breeder or shelter and either lives in misery or dies. It seems to me that support should be at the top of the list!

Sandi uses Web cameras and an iPhone app to monitor Sam when she leaves him at home. Three cameras ensure she can see him at all times, and the pictures are live-streamed to her phone. This enables her to return quickly if Sam should become upset or anxious while she is gone, to prevent triggering a serious setback.

Dealing with an SA dog can also cause strife in friendships and relationships. Many couples have confessed at our group sessions that they argue a lot about the dog and that both parties have periods of feeling envious of, or bitter toward, the other. It is common for one person in a relationship to do most of the work with the dog while the other goes about their life – and this, too, can cause a lot of resentment. A friend struggling with an SA dog told me, “As I kissed my husband goodbye in the morning, I remember thinking how lucky he was that he escaped from the building that had become my prison.” Several have even admitted to me that the other party gave them an ultimatum; that if the dog didn’t improve soon, then the dog would be gotten rid of. I can’t imagine the extra amount of stress this would add to an already horrible situation!

Some “SA Club” members confessed to feeling guilty for somehow causing the separation anxiety in the first place. Some expressed feeling resentful toward the dog and then feeling guilty for being resentful! Several admitted to almost losing their jobs because of consistently being late for work or not coming in at all (because of a pet-sitting snafu or general depression).

One thing has become clear to me, as a constant attendee of this club: If an owner does not get support throughout this lengthy process, relationships become strained, employment suffers, motivation wanes, and training stops. Everyone loses in the end, most notably the dog.

This knowledge has helped me through the past few months of working with Sam. I’ve now learned to stay away from people who are not supportive! If a friend tells me that I should “Just let him cry it out!” or “Just let him deal with it while you go to the store!” I avoid discussing Sam with them, or avoid them altogether.

It Gets Better
I never could have gotten here without my support group and my dog-sitting friends, including Colleen Kinzley, who watched Sam for me at the location where I teach on Monday nights – which also happens to be the place she works every day, and her night off! With the help of all of these special people, I’ve been able to continue Sam’s training and he’s been able to make more and more progress. As Sam has improved, and the amount of time that he can be left alone has increased, I have been able to “release” some of my dog-sitting friends from their duties (though I don’t know how I will ever repay them for their great kindness).

I still use a camera app for my smartphone, so I am able to watch Sam in real time on my phone when I leave the house. I now have three cameras set at different angles so I can watch him and be ready to come back home if he starts to get upset.

Last night I went to work and left Sam home. I had my cameras running and checked in on him in between the classes I was teaching. I was gone for 5½ hours. He mostly slept the entire time.

I think we’ve crossed the finish line. It was unspeakably hard, probably harder than anything I’ve ever done. But I have to say that through this difficult journey some beautiful things have happened: I’ve made a lot of new caring friends. Even today I cannot believe the selfless efforts that these people made to help Sam and me. I could not have done it without their support and the support of the group I created. I am more grateful to them than I can ever express.

Before this started I was afraid of separation anxiety. Now, because of this journey with Sam, I have a newfound sympathy and understanding of what owners of SA dogs are going through and feel confident and uniquely qualified to help others through this.

Many people have asked me, “If you had known about the SA before you brought Sam home, would you have still brought him home?” I can answer that honestly and without hesitation: No. Had I known what was in store for me I would have tearfully said goodbye and walked away.

But if you ask me now, “Would you do it again?” I’d say absolutely, unequivocally yes. My life is better after all the struggles in so many ways, but mostly it is just better with Siam Sam in it.

Sandi Thompson, of Bravo!pup, is a dog trainer and a long-time model for training articles in WDJ. She shares her home in Berkeley, CA, with Siam Sam and her little dog Turtle, who sometimes gets mistaken for WDJ’s Otto.

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GREAT DR. OFEMO THAT HELP ME SAVE MY RELATIONSHIP. Good Day everybody, My name is Lena Adams.am from the United State of America,This is a very happy day of my life with the help of Dr.Ofemo has rendered to me by helping me to get my divorce husband back with his magic power and love spell. i was married for 8 years and it was so terrible because my husband was really cheating on me, and was seeking for a divorce but when i came across Dr.Ofemo email on the internet on how he help so many people to get their ex back and help fixing relationship.and make people to be happy in their relationship. i explained my situation to him and then seek his help but to my greatest surprise he told me that he will help me with my case and here i am now celebrating because my Husband has change totally for good.he started begging me to forgive him that he is very sorry for everything, i was really surprised and was also happy, so that was how i forgive him and now we are living together happily than ever before,and He always want to be by me and can not do anything without my present. i am really happy with my marriage, what a great celebration. thank you Dr Ofemo who helped a lot, if you need his help you can contact him through email:drofemospelltemple@gmail.com

Posted by: lena1 | September 21, 2014 1:27 PM    Report this comment

GREAT DR. OFEMO THAT HELP ME SAVE MY RELATIONSHIP. Good Day everybody, My name is Lena Adams.am from the United State of America,This is a very happy day of my life with the help of Dr.Ofemo has rendered to me by helping me to get my divorce husband back with his magic power and love spell. i was married for 8 years and it was so terrible because my husband was really cheating on me, and was seeking for a divorce but when i came across Dr.Ofemo email on the internet on how he help so many people to get their ex back and help fixing relationship.and make people to be happy in their relationship. i explained my situation to him and then seek his help but to my greatest surprise he told me that he will help me with my case and here i am now celebrating because my Husband has change totally for good.he started begging me to forgive him that he is very sorry for everything, i was really surprised and was also happy, so that was how i forgive him and now we are living together happily than ever before,and He always want to be by me and can not do anything without my present. i am really happy with my marriage, what a great celebration. thank you Dr Ofemo who helped a lot, if you need his help you can contact him through email:drofemospelltemple@gmail.com

Posted by: lena1 | September 21, 2014 1:19 PM    Report this comment

GREAT DR. OFEMO THAT HELP ME SAVE MY RELATIONSHIP. Good Day everybody, My name is Lena Adams.am from the United State of America,This is a very happy day of my life with the help of Dr.Ofemo has rendered to me by helping me to get my divorce husband back with his magic power and love spell. i was married for 8 years and it was so terrible because my husband was really cheating on me, and was seeking for a divorce but when i came across Dr.Ofemo email on the internet on how he help so many people to get their ex back and help fixing relationship.and make people to be happy in their relationship. i explained my situation to him and then seek his help but to my greatest surprise he told me that he will help me with my case and here i am now celebrating because my Husband has change totally for good.he started begging me to forgive him that he is very sorry for everything, i was really surprised and was also happy, so that was how i forgive him and now we are living together happily than ever before,and He always want to be by me and can not do anything without my present. i am really happy with my marriage, what a great celebration. thank you Dr Ofemo who helped a lot, if you need his help you can contact him through email:drofemospelltemple@gmail.com

Posted by: lena1 | September 21, 2014 1:17 PM    Report this comment

Hello name is ALEX SOPHIA, and I base in UK. My life is back!!! After 3 years of Broken marriage, my husband left me with three kids . I felt like my life was about to end i almost committed suicide, i was emotionally down for a very long time. Thanks to a spell caster called DR OZIL, which i met on line. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet,I came across allot of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and so on. i also come across one particular testimony,it was about a woman called BECKY,she testified about how he brought back her Ex lover in less than 2 days, and at the end of her testimony she dropped DR OZIL email address. After reading all these,I decided to give it a try. I contacted him via email and explained my problem to him. In just 48 hours, my husband came back to me. We solved our issues, and we are even happier than before DR OZIL, is really a gifted man and i will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man... If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster to solve all your problems for you. Contact DR OZIL on his email: drozilsolutionhome@gmail.com or drozilsolutionhome@yahoo.com he is the answer to your problems. Here's his contact email: drozilsolutionhome@gmail.com or drozilsolutionhome@yahoo.com or call him through his mobile number: +2347032618863.

Posted by: Alexsophia | September 20, 2014 10:35 PM    Report this comment

Hello name is ALEX SOPHIA, and I base in UK. My life is back!!! After 3 years of Broken marriage, my husband left me with three kids . I felt like my life was about to end i almost committed suicide, i was emotionally down for a very long time. Thanks to a spell caster called DR OZIL, which i met on line. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet,I came across allot of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and so on. i also come across one particular testimony,it was about a woman called BECKY,she testified about how he brought back her Ex lover in less than 2 days, and at the end of her testimony she dropped DR OZIL email address. After reading all these,I decided to give it a try. I contacted him via email and explained my problem to him. In just 48 hours, my husband came back to me. We solved our issues, and we are even happier than before DR OZIL, is really a gifted man and i will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man... If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster to solve all your problems for you. Contact DR OZIL on his email: drozilsolutionhome@gmail.com or drozilsolutionhome@yahoo.com , he is the answer to your problems. Here's his contact email: drozilsolutionhome@gmail.com or drozilsolutionhome@yahoo.com or call him through his mobile number: +2347032618863.

Posted by: Alexsophia | September 20, 2014 10:32 PM    Report this comment

I am full of happiness and delight, on the grounds that I have my significant other once more at my palm. My partner left me for just about 2 years. He doesn't pick or even return my calls and sends I tried each approaches to get him back, however no way. Until I met with this extraordinary spell caster called OLUBAM , who did magic for me to get him back in less than 42hrs. I exhort anybody going to this site to run to him promptly for any relationship offer assistance. He is an extremely effective and experience spell caster you can get help from you can contact this great man Dr olubam on his email Dr.olubamspellhome@gmail.com thanks great doctor smiles

Posted by: miss helen | September 20, 2014 12:54 AM    Report this comment

I am full of happiness and delight, on the grounds that I have my significant other once more at my palm. My partner left me for just about 2 years. He doesn't pick or even return my calls and sends I tried each approaches to get him back, however no way. Until I met with this extraordinary spell caster called OLUBAM , who did magic for me to get him back in less than 42hrs. I exhort anybody going to this site to run to him promptly for any relationship offer assistance. He is an extremely effective and experience spell caster you can get help from you can contact this great man Dr olubam on his email Dr.olubamspellhome@gmail.com

Posted by: miss helen | September 20, 2014 12:53 AM    Report this comment

Hi everyone act there.. my name is MULLAR SHARRON i am from germany. i will never forget the help DR.TRUST render to me in my marital life. i have been married for 5 years now and my husband and i love each other very dearly . after 3 years of our marriage my husband suddenly change he was having an affair with a lady outside,i notice it then i was praying for divine intervention the thing became more serious i told my pastor about it we prayed but nothing happen. my husband just came home one day he pick up his things and left me and the kids to his mistress outside at this time i was confuse not knowing what to do again because i have lost my husband and my marriage too. i was searching for help in the internet, i saw many people sharing testimony on how dr.trust help them out with their marital problems so i contacted the email of dr.trust i told him my problem and i was told to be calm that i have come to the right place were i can get back my husband within the next 24hours.he told me what went wrong with my husband and how it happen.that they will restored my marriage. to my greatest surprise my husband came to my office begging me on his knees that i should find a place in my heart to forgive him,that he will never cheat on me again. i quickly ask him up that i have forgiven him.friends your case is not too hard why don't you give Dr.trust a try they work surprises because i know they will help you to fix your relationship with your ex partner. i thank god for using dr.trust to save my marriage. contact him via (ULTIMATESPELLCAST@GMAIL.COM OR ULTIMATESPELLCAST@YAHOO.COM) tel +2348156885231

Posted by: mullar sharron | September 19, 2014 4:34 AM    Report this comment

Hi everyone act there.. my name is MULLAR SHARRON i am from germany. i will never forget the help DR.TRUST render to me in my marital life. i have been married for 5 years now and my husband and i love each other very dearly . after 3 years of our marriage my husband suddenly change he was having an affair with a lady outside,i notice it then i was praying for divine intervention the thing became more serious i told my pastor about it we prayed but nothing happen. my husband just came home one day he pick up his things and left me and the kids to his mistress outside at this time i was confuse not knowing what to do again because i have lost my husband and my marriage too. i was searching for help in the internet, i saw many people sharing testimony on how dr.trust help them out with their marital problems so i contacted the email of dr.trust i told him my problem and i was told to be calm that i have come to the right place were i can get back my husband within the next 24hours.he told me what went wrong with my husband and how it happen.that they will restored my marriage. to my greatest surprise my husband came to my office begging me on his knees that i should find a place in my heart to forgive him,that he will never cheat on me again. i quickly ask him up that i have forgiven him.friends your case is not too hard why don't you give Dr.trust a try they work surprises because i know they will help you to fix your relationship with your ex partner. i thank god for using dr.trust to save my marriage. contact him via (ULTIMATESPELLCAST@GMAIL.COM OR ULTIMATESPELLCAST@YAHOO.COM) tel +2348156885231

Posted by: mullar sharron | September 19, 2014 4:33 AM    Report this comment

GREAT DR. OFEMO THAT HELP ME SAVE MY RELATIONSHIP. Good Day everybody, My name is Lena Adams.am from the United State of America,This is a very happy day of my life with the help of Dr.Ofemo has rendered to me by helping me to get my divorce husband back with his magic power and love spell. i was married for 8 years and it was so terrible because my husband was really cheating on me, and was seeking for a divorce but when i came across Dr.Ofemo email on the internet on how he help so many people to get their ex back and help fixing relationship.and make people to be happy in their relationship. i explained my situation to him and then seek his help but to my greatest surprise he told me that he will help me with my case and here i am now celebrating because my Husband has change totally for good.he started begging me to forgive him that he is very sorry for everything, i was really surprised and was also happy, so that was how i forgive him and now we are living together happily than ever before,and He always want to be by me and can not do anything without my present. i am really happy with my marriage, what a great celebration. thank you Dr Ofemo who helped a lot, if you need his help you can contact him through email:drofemospelltemple@gmail.com..

Posted by: lena1 | September 16, 2014 7:25 PM    Report this comment

GREAT DR. OFEMO THAT HELP ME SAVE MY RELATIONSHIP. Good Day everybody, My name is Lena Adams.am from the United State of America,This is a very happy day of my life with the help of Dr.Ofemo has rendered to me by helping me to get my divorce husband back with his magic power and love spell. i was married for 8 years and it was so terrible because my husband was really cheating on me, and was seeking for a divorce but when i came across Dr.Ofemo email on the internet on how he help so many people to get their ex back and help fixing relationship.and make people to be happy in their relationship. i explained my situation to him and then seek his help but to my greatest surprise he told me that he will help me with my case and here i am now celebrating because my Husband has change totally for good.he started begging me to forgive him that he is very sorry for everything, i was really surprised and was also happy, so that was how i forgive him and now we are living together happily than ever before,and He always want to be by me and can not do anything without my present. i am really happy with my marriage, what a great celebration. thank you Dr Ofemo who helped a lot, if you need his help you can contact him through email:drofemospelltemple@gmail.com

Posted by: lena1 | September 16, 2014 7:17 PM    Report this comment

My name is Becky Ross , I really want to testify to the good work of the Dr. Ogala (Holyspellcast@gmail.com or Holyspellcast@yahoo.com}. A couple of years ago, my husband left home after we had little misunderstanding, he never returned, no phone calls, no letters, no emails and no sign of him anywhere. My daughter got sick so ill, things were so tough for me. I had lost hope, 2 years ago, i met a psychic, he said he would help me, i paid over $1000 and still nothing happened, i lost hope completely, my daughter's situation got worse each day. Last month, i saw a posting concerning the good works of the Spiritual professional(Dr. Ogala), i gave them a try... He asked me to provide the spiriual materials needed to cast the spells and i paid just $200 for all three spells (Bring Lover back, Healing spell and Career spells). In a matter of weeks, my husband called me and told me he was sorry and that he wants to come back to me and that he would explain everything when he comes back, three days later, i got a new job with an Real Estate company, right now, my daughter's is finally healed. I want to thanks DR. Ogala, you can contact him via email: (Holyspellcast@gmail.com or Holyspellcast@yahoo.com}

Posted by: adams trace | September 12, 2014 12:06 AM    Report this comment

My husband has abandon me and the kids for the the past 8months now, and refuse to come back because he was hold on by a woman whom he just met, for that, my self and the kids has been suffering and it has been heel of a struggle, but I decide to do all means to make sure that my family come together as it use to, then I went online there I saw so many good talk about this spell caster whose email is Holyspellcast@gmail.com Or Holyspellcast@yahoo.com so I had to contact him and explain my problem to him and in just 2days as he has promised, my husband came home and his behavior was back to the man i got married to. I cant thank the spell caster enough for what he did for me, i am so grateful and i will never stop to publish his name on the internet for the good work he has done for me,once again his email is Holyspellcast@gmail.com Or Holyspellcast@yahoo.com

Posted by: adams trace | September 12, 2014 12:03 AM    Report this comment

GREAT DR. OFEMO THAT HELP ME SAVE MY RELATIONSHIP. Good Day everybody, My name is Lena Adams.am from the United State of America,This is a very happy day of my life with the help of Dr.Ofemo has rendered to me by helping me to get my divorce husband back with his magic power and love spell. i was married for 8 years and it was so terrible because my husband was really cheating on me, and was seeking for a divorce but when i came across Dr.Ofemo email on the internet on how he help so many people to get their ex back and help fixing relationship.and make people to be happy in their relationship. i explained my situation to him and then seek his help but to my greatest surprise he told me that he will help me with my case and here i am now celebrating because my Husband has change totally for good.he started begging me to forgive him that he is very sorry for everything, i was really surprised and was also happy, so that was how i forgive him and now we are living together happily than ever before,and He always want to be by me and can not do anything without my present. i am really happy with my marriage, what a great celebration. thank you Dr Ofemo who helped a lot, if you need his help you can contact him through email:drofemospelltemple@gmail.com

Posted by: lena1 | September 6, 2014 7:40 PM    Report this comment

GREAT DR. OFEMO THAT HELP ME SAVE MY RELATIONSHIP. Good Day everybody, My name is Lena Adams.am from the United State of America,This is a very happy day of my life with the help of Dr.Ofemo has rendered to me by helping me to get my divorce husband back with his magic power and love spell. i was married for 8 years and it was so terrible because my husband was really cheating on me, and was seeking for a divorce but when i came across Dr.Ofemo email on the internet on how he help so many people to get their ex back and help fixing relationship.and make people to be happy in their relationship. i explained my situation to him and then seek his help but to my greatest surprise he told me that he will help me with my case and here i am now celebrating because my Husband has change totally for good.he started begging me to forgive him that he is very sorry for everything, i was really surprised and was also happy, so that was how i forgive him and now we are living together happily than ever before,and He always want to be by me and can not do anything without my present. i am really happy with my marriage, what a great celebration. thank you Dr Ofemo who helped a lot, if you need his help you can contact him through email:drofemospelltemple@gmail.com..

Posted by: lena1 | September 4, 2014 8:36 PM    Report this comment

GREAT DR. OFEMO THAT HELP ME SAVE MY RELATIONSHIP. Good Day everybody, My name is Lena Adams.am from the United State of America,This is a very happy day of my life with the help of Dr.Ofemo has rendered to me by helping me to get my divorce husband back with his magic power and love spell. i was married for 8 years and it was so terrible because my husband was really cheating on me, and was seeking for a divorce but when i came across Dr.Ofemo email on the internet on how he help so many people to get their ex back and help fixing relationship.and make people to be happy in their relationship. i explained my situation to him and then seek his help but to my greatest surprise he told me that he will help me with my case and here i am now celebrating because my Husband has change totally for good.he started begging me to forgive him that he is very sorry for everything, i was really surprised and was also happy, so that was how i forgive him and now we are living together happily than ever before,and He always want to be by me and can not do anything without my present. i am really happy with my marriage, what a great celebration. thank you Dr Ofemo who helped a lot, if you need his help you can contact him through email:drofemospelltemple@gmail.com

Posted by: lena1 | September 4, 2014 8:32 PM    Report this comment

My name is sharon britto from USA My boyfriend and I were happy as far as I could tell and I never thought that we would break up. When his cousin died in a tragic car accident he went back to Philippine for a week to be with his family. I could not go because I was in the middle of entertaining out of town clients for work. He did not seem to be upset that I could not go so I let him be. The next thing that I know, he reconnected with an old friend from high school that he had a crush on years ago and they started to have an affair! I had no clue what was going on until a month after he came back from Philippine.He proceeded to see both her and I until I caught him testing her one night. I confronted him and he told me the truth about what happened. We broke up and went our separate ways. Neither of us fought for our relationship. I was angry and decided not to be upset about it and just keep it moving. Then after about a month of not speaking to him I became sad. I wanted him to tell me that he wanted to be with me and not her. I contacted Dr.Tafar for a love spell and he totally helped me! he was able to get him to miss me to where he wanted to get back together again. He had a lot of regrets and felt bad for not fighting to keep me and for cheating in general. He values our relationship so much more now and we are together now! You can also get your lover back with the help of Dr. Tafar contact him through his email: Tafarlovespell@gmail.com. and you can also call him +2348039456308 THANKS...

Posted by: adams trace | August 19, 2014 8:26 PM    Report this comment

I am very happy today for what Dr Stanley a great spell caster has done in my life. i had misunderstanding with my husband in the past and so it led to us breaking up for 3months but one day i saw a comment posted on a forum on the internet that Dr Stanley helped her with a spell that brought her Husband back so i decided to contact Dr Stanley to help me and he assured me that my Husband will come back to me with 48hours and today i am very glade to write on this wall that my husband has come back to me as he has said. You can also reach him if you want his help via drstanleyspelltemple@hotmail.com or call +2348038139297.........Sally

Posted by: Roseal | August 10, 2014 1:00 AM    Report this comment

I am very happy today for what Dr Stanley a great spell caster has done in my life. i had misunderstanding with my husband in the past and so it led to us breaking up for 3months but one day i saw a comment posted on a forum on the internet that Dr Stanley helped her with a spell that brought her Husband back so i decided to contact Dr Stanley to help me and he assured me that my Husband will come back to me with 48hours and today i am very glade to write on this wall that my husband has come back to me as he has said. You can also reach him if you want his help via drstanleyspelltemple@hotmail.com or call +2348038139297.........Sally

Posted by: Roseal | August 10, 2014 12:59 AM    Report this comment

My name is maria johan from malaysia. My boyfriend left me a month ago and he was leaving with another woman who is 10 years older than him,i feel like my life is completely over. I read over the internet how a spell caster have help several people to get there love back. I have been depress for the past one month and what i need is to get him back and live with him happily. so i decided to give it a try so i contacted the spell caster called Dr.Trust and explain my problems to him and he cast a love spell which i use to get my boyfriend back and now my life is complete and both of us are very happy with the relationship. and i am throughly grateful to this man,his contact email is ultimatespellcast@gmail.com or ultimatespellcast@yahoo.com Thank you very much and i am extremely greatful Tel: +2348156885231.And there is know evil attach to his spell.it will only make your relationship very stronger.

Posted by: adams trace | August 9, 2014 9:00 AM    Report this comment

I am out here to testify of your great DR.Lawrence LOVE SPELL, my husband is back to me with the kids and leave the other woman at his working place, with your spell and he is in love with me now as you said, and he said there is no need for divorce and he apologized for all the pains he cost me and my kids thanks to DR.Lawrence , if you need his help his email address is [drlawrencespelltemple@hotmail.com], your spell work fast and I am so happy to share your testimony

Posted by: URSULAPALMER | August 6, 2014 12:24 AM    Report this comment

I never believed in love spell but when it turned out that love spell was my last hope, I gave it a try because my lover stopped talking to me, after begging and pleading with him I realized that nothing was working out, he left me to meet another girl, i had no choice than to ordered a reunite love spell from robinsonbuckler to help me get my lover back, after the spell was cast, the Results was fantastic, I never expected what i saw, I'm so grateful i came across this spell caster, My love left his other girlfriend and we came back together have, email him robinsonbuckler@yahoo(.)com

Posted by: BellaRODNEY | August 5, 2014 8:39 PM    Report this comment

I never believed in love spell but when it turned out that love spell was my last hope, I gave it a try because my lover stopped talking to me, after begging and pleading with him I realized that nothing was working out, he left me to meet another girl, i had no choice than to ordered a reunite love spell from robinsonbuckler to help me get my lover back, after the spell was cast, the Results was fantastic, I never expected what i saw, I'm so grateful i came across this spell caster, My love left his other girlfriend and we came back together have, call him [00919715126745] Bella RODNEY

Posted by: BellaRODNEY | August 5, 2014 8:37 PM    Report this comment

I know most of you don't believe in anything at all and yes you have the right so this is mostly for those who want to get their spouse back. I can tell that all those post you read, like five way to get your ex back doesn't really work or maybe it does works for some of you but for me, it was nonsense rather it complicated my love life problem. My boyfriend who was in love with me as much as i was in love with him broke up with me after the birth of our child.The only help i got was from AJAYI OLOLO a spell caster.Only his method of spell casting out of all the other ways on how to get your ex back worked.My boyfriend and i dated for two years and during that period i got pregnant and you know he was so happy i was carrying his child it was his idea that we keep the baby though i was going to keep it even when he said he was not ready.But he was most excited about the fact that we were going to have a baby.We went shopping on baby thing together, painted our baby room and did everything other thing about the baby together including being by my side when the doctor confirmed that we were going to have a baby girl. I have never seen him so happy as he was that day. Then the day i gave birth to my girl he came telling me he can't do this anymore. He said his too scared to be a dad he does not want to do anything to make his daughter hate him forever.It was so simple, all he had to do was to love her just as he love himself. Nothing i told him made him stay even when i told him what he was doing was going to create the hatred he didn't want between him and his daughter. Then he said i rather have it that way. I couldn't help it but to cry i mean how was i going to rise this child all alone and the thought of losing my man was i ever an ugly thing i pictured in my head. For crying out loud i don't need a child support all i needed was for him to be there with me and his daughter to protect us, to be there no her birthdays, and to be there for every holiday. Was that too much to ask from the father of my baby was it too much to ask him to love us just the way he use too? NO, i don't think so. It became obvious that he was unfaithful to me with another woman before and when i got pregnant because he move on so easily and started to date a girl i don't even know. And you know he even call to tell me he was seeing someone else. All I could think of was how to get my man and my family back. Tried all ideas online and they made thing worse i got arrested for troubling his home. That was when i made up my mind to contact AJAYI OLOLO a spell caster that so many people has made recommendations about online and also my sister told me about him before on how he has really been helpful to the world. I read a lot about him online all i read were positive comment about him because i could not find any negative one. Word has it that his words are true and grant you what you desire from him. So many testimonies about how he has restore a broken marriage, bring back your ex-lover, win lottery, and many more. All this thing i read made me contact. All he asked for was that materials for the spell be provide by me.I rather i sent him the money to purchase the materials than doing it myself so i sent him the money. He didn't charge me for his services like he said for it is against the spirit to ask money for their good work done. And believe with no time my child father was back and this time it was for sure he is never going anywhere. All i could see in his eye was love and nothing more. AJAYI OLOLO contact is: ajayiololo@yahoo.com He solves all problem.

Posted by: osasjoel | August 3, 2014 10:56 PM    Report this comment

To all that are out there who has suffered heart break relationships for a long time that wish to get back with there ex-lover, restore there broken marriages, want to win a lottery, you have been sick for a long time and wish to recover now, money spell, good-luck spell and many more, when i mean many more, any problem you are passing through in this life, contact the following email to get your spell casted to get an everlasting solution to the problem: ajayiololo@yahoo.com the great and best spell caster that brought back to me my baby father / lover. Also the last time i talked with DR AJAYI OLOLO that i wish to testify of the goodness of his spell casting in my life, Just the way i have read so many people own that made me contact him with his email which is: ajayiololo@yahoo.com, He said i should include that all those that wish to seek for his help should contact with there phone number and country they from on the content of there email they are sending to get help here with his powerful and reliable spell casting because he is always busy in the temple most times.

Posted by: osasjoel | August 3, 2014 10:55 PM    Report this comment

GREAT MAN WHO HELP ME GET MY EX HUSBAND BACK

I never use to believe in spell casting until i met Dr wellborn a powerful spell caster who helped me to be a happy person again. My name is Sandra martins and i reside in CANADA. After 3 years of Broken marriage, my husband left me with three kids. I felt like my life was about to end and i almost committed suicide, i was emotionally down for a very long time. Thanks to a Great spell caster called Dr wellborn which i met online on one faithful day when I was browsing CANADA Athrough the internet, i came across a lot of testimonies about this particular Great spell caster how he has helped so many people. he has helped people to bring back their Ex lover, some testified that he restores womb, cure cancer and other sickness, and so on. I also came across a testimony, it was about a woman called Amanda, she testified about how his spell made her to be pregnant after so many years of bareness and at the end of her testimony she dropped Dr wellborn email address. After reading all these, i decided to give it a try and i contacted him and explained my problem to him and he assured me that in less than 48 hours, my husband will call me and beg for forgiveness but i thought it will not work. When he had finished casting the spell, the next day my husband called me and he was begging for forgiveness just as Dr wellborn said. This is not brain washing and after the spell has been cast, i realized that my husband love me like never before and the spell caster opened him up to know how much i love him and how much love we need to share. We are even happier now than before. Dr wellborn is really a gifted man and i will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man. If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and a genuine spell caster to solve all your problems contact Dr wellborn now on wellbornspelltemple@gmail.com he will help you solve your problems. Once again thank you Dr wellborn for your good deeds.

Sandra martins _CANADA

Posted by: sandra martins | August 3, 2014 3:12 AM    Report this comment

This is real take it serious, who will believe that a herb can cure 7 years HIV in my body, i never believe that this will work i have spend a lot getting drugs from the hospital to keep me healthy, what i was waiting for is death because i was broke. One day i heard about this great man who is well known of HIV and cancer cure, i decided to email him, unknowingly to me that this will be the end of the HIV aids in my body, he prepare the herb for me, and give me instruction on how to take it, at the end of the two week, he told me to go to the hospital for a check up, and i went, surprisingly after the test the doctor confirm me negative, i thought it was a joke, i went to another hospital, it was also negative, then i took my friend who was also HIV positive to the Dr, after the treatment she was also confirm negative . He also have the herb to cure cancer... please i want everyone with this virus to be free, that is why am dropping his email address, ogboduspellhome@gmail.com...his phone number[2347069492065, 2347050485554]... do email him he is a great man. Thank you for saving my life, and I promise I will always testify for your good work.

Posted by: Tracy Adams | July 31, 2014 9:29 PM    Report this comment

This is real take it serious, who will believe that a herb can cure 7 years HIV in my body, i never believe that this will work i have spend a lot getting drugs from the hospital to keep me healthy, what i was waiting for is death because i was broke. One day i heard about this great man who is well known of HIV and cancer cure, i decided to email him, unknowingly to me that this will be the end of the HIV aids in my body, he prepare the herb for me, and give me instruction on how to take it, at the end of the two week, he told me to go to the hospital for a check up, and i went, surprisingly after the test the doctor confirm me negative, i thought it was a joke, i went to another hospital, it was also negative, then i took my friend who was also HIV positive to the Dr, after the treatment she was also confirm negative . He also have the herb to cure cancer... please i want everyone with this virus to be free, that is why am dropping his email address, ogboduspellhome@gmail.com...his phone number[2347069492065, 2347050485554]... do email him he is a great man. Thank you for saving my life, and I promise I will always testify for your good work.

Posted by: Tracy Adams | July 31, 2014 9:28 PM    Report this comment

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Posted by: Tracy Adams | July 31, 2014 9:27 PM    Report this comment

Unfortunately, there are many spam comments on this site, as well as comments from people who want others to do the work for them. Face it---there are not many SANE PEOPLE who want your neurotic dog, Either euthanize the dog or do what you have to do. Unfortunately, Sandi doesn't say what specific 'exercises' she die with Sam to bring him around. I've successfully used sit & down stays, working my way up by seconds and inches. Took months for one dog with very bad SA. The only alternative, however, was euthanasia.

Posted by: RobynM | July 30, 2014 9:24 PM    Report this comment

My name is paul zerek.I do not know how to thank GREAT ZABA for bringing happiness back to my family. i do really wanna tell the whole world that there is a spell caster called Dr.Zaba that is so real and genuine. I never believed in any of these things but when i lose my wife for 4 years, i required help until i found a great spell caster, and he cast a love spell for me, and he assured me that I will get my wife back in just 48hours but i was in doubt, and after the spell has been cast, 48hours later, just as the spell caster said, my phone rang, and surprisingly it was my wife who has not called me for the past 4 years, and she made an apology for the pain she has caused me and she told me that she is ready to come back home for me. Dr.Zaba really made her to know how much i loved and needed her. And he also opened her eyes to picture how much love we have to share together. With this testimony right now i am the happiest man on earth and our love is now stronger than how it was even before. I will keep sharing this testimony all over the world. All thanks goes to Dr.Zaba for the good work that he has done for me. Here is his email address if you are having the same or similar problem contact him now because he is very powerful and he will always help you. Believe him and do all he ask you to do and never doubt him in any way.contact him for help,he is ever ready to help you. Makiaderspelltemple@hotmail.com

Posted by: Taylor Borg | July 25, 2014 4:49 PM    Report this comment

My name is Taylor Borg,All thanks goes to Dr.Trust for saving my marriage from toning apart.i feel so grateful and only have good words about a powerful spell caster named Dr.Trust who helped me bring back my wife. We had been apart for 4 months, at first I was thinking if I was doing the right thing by contacting a spell caster, but I so much love my wife and won't give her up for anything in this world. I decided to contact Dr.Trust through his mail address I found on several testifiers messages online,and I told him about my situation, he laughed and told me my wife will be back to me in the next 48 hours. I felt it wasn't going to happen at first until my wife called me and was so eager to have me back more than anything on earth.. Now we are together and she cant do without me,and both of us are happy. I feel so happy sharing this testimony because there was no negative act attached to his work. His work was smooth and fast. Thanks to Dr.Trust for bringing back happiness to my life. I swear with my life that Dr.Trust is a man to trust and take your problems to. You can contact him on his e-mail if you really truly want your love back. dr.(ULTIMATESPELLCAST@GMAIL.COM OT ULTIMATESPELLCAST@YAHOO.COM TEL: +2348156885231)

Posted by: Taylor Borg | July 23, 2014 8:11 PM    Report this comment

My name is Taylor Borg,All thanks goes to Dr.Trust for saving my marriage from toning apart.i feel so grateful and only have good words about a powerful spell caster named Dr.Trust who helped me bring back my wife. We had been apart for 4 months, at first I was thinking if I was doing the right thing by contacting a spell caster, but I so much love my wife and won't give her up for anything in this world. I decided to contact Dr.Trust through his mail address I found on several testifiers messages online,and I told him about my situation, he laughed and told me my wife will be back to me in the next 48 hours. I felt it wasn't going to happen at first until my wife called me and was so eager to have me back more than anything on earth.. Now we are together and she cant do without me,and both of us are happy. I feel so happy sharing this testimony because there was no negative act attached to his work. His work was smooth and fast. Thanks to Dr.Trust for bringing back happiness to my life. I swear with my life that Dr.Trust is a man to trust and take your problems to. You can contact him on his e-mail if you really truly want your love back. dr.(ULTIMATESPELLCAST@GMAIL.COM OT ULTIMATESPELLCAST@YAHOO.COM TEL: +2348156885231)

Posted by: Taylor Borg | July 23, 2014 8:11 PM    Report this comment

I'm Mercy brown by name I have a few testimony to share with you all about myself, I was in a relationship with this guy and for 3years and we were about getting married when we both have misunderstanding with each other and he ask me for a divorce and we both agreed and after 4months I head that he was having an affair with one of my closest friend and I was very upset and worried so a friend of my advice me and told me if I still love my ex and if I really want to have him back so I told her yes, and she ask me to contact Dr. Madurai the spell caster and I did although I never believe on spell so he gave me something when he was casting the spell and ask me to say my wishes on it and after the casting of the spell a receive a phone call from my ex and was ask me at which I did and now we are back together again I'm so happy and I wish not to ever have this mistake again in my life. I will also advice anyone with this kind of issue to contact him for help he is really nice on phone and always there to answer you question giving you the good advice that you need. his email is maduraitemple@yahoo.com

Posted by: mercybrown20 | July 23, 2014 4:19 AM    Report this comment

I'm Mercy brown by name I have a few testimony to share with you all about myself, I was in a relationship with this guy and for 3years and we were about getting married when we both have misunderstanding with each other and he ask me for a divorce and we both agreed and after 4months I head that he was having an affair with one of my closest friend and I was very upset and worried so a friend of my advice me and told me if I still love my ex and if I really want to have him back so I told her yes, and she ask me to contact Dr. Madurai the spell caster and I did although I never believe on spell so he gave me something when he was casting the spell and ask me to say my wishes on it and after the casting of the spell a receive a phone call from my ex and was ask me at which I did and now we are back together again I'm so happy and I wish not to ever have this mistake again in my life. I will also advice anyone with this kind of issue to contact him for help he is really nice on phone and always there to answer you question giving you the good advice that you need. his email is maduraitemple@yahoo.com

Posted by: staceybruno45 | July 23, 2014 4:13 AM    Report this comment

I'm Mercy brown by name I have a few testimony to share with you all about myself, I was in a relationship with this guy and for 3years and we were about getting married when we both have misunderstanding with each other and he ask me for a divorce and we both agreed and after 4months I head that he was having an affair with one of my closest friend and I was very upset and worried so a friend of my advice me and told me if I still love my ex and if I really want to have him back so I told her yes, and she ask me to contact Dr. Madurai the spell caster and I did although I never believe on spell so he gave me something when he was casting the spell and ask me to say my wishes on it and after the casting of the spell a receive a phone call from my ex and was ask me at which I did and now we are back together again I'm so happy and I wish not to ever have this mistake again in my life. I will also advice anyone with this kind of issue to contact him for help he is really nice on phone and always there to answer you question giving you the good advice that you need. his email is maduraitemple@yahoo.com

Posted by: staceybruno45 | July 23, 2014 4:13 AM    Report this comment

My name is Floa Dee, and I base in UK...My life is back!!! After 2 years of Broken marriage, my husband left me with two kids . I felt like my life was about to end i almost committed suicide, i was emotionally down for a very long time. Thanks to a spell caster called Dr Ekuma, which i met online. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet,I came across a lot of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb,cure cancer,and other sickness, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and so on. i also come across one particular testimony,it was about a woman called Elizabeth,she testified about how he brought back her Ex lover in less than 2 days, and at the end of her testimony she dropped Dr Ekuma's e-mail address. After reading all these,I decided to give it a try. I contacted him via email and explained my problem to him. In just 48hours, my husband came back to me. We solved our issues, and we are even happier than before Dr Ekuma, is really a gifted man and i will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man... If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster to solve all your problems for you. Try ekumasolutiontemple@gmail.com anytime, he might be the answer to your problems. Here's his contact: ekumasolutiontemple@gmail.com

Posted by: flora dee | July 20, 2014 6:21 AM    Report this comment

My Name is TRACY, From New York,USA. I wish to share my testimonies with the general public about what this man called Dr Obodo Agunechemba has just done for me , this man has just brought back my lost Ex husband with his great spell, I was married to this man called Steven we were together for a long time and we love each other but when I was unable to give him a child after 2 years,he left me and told me he can't continue anymore then I was now looking for ways to get him back until a friend of mine told me about this man. My friend gave his email to me and asked me to contact him but I didn't want to cos I doubted at first but later reconsidered cos it's so rear for a man to be as powerful like she said. So I contacted her through this email (drobodo55@gmail.com) You won't believe this when I contacted this man and told him my problems he cast the spell and my ex came back begging on his knees and asking me to forgive him. Not only that after a month I miss my monthly flow,when I went to my doctor,he confirm that I am pregnant so I told my self that I will testify to the whole wide world about the wonders of the powerful if I give birth successfully. I am so happy today cos I am a mother of a bouncing baby girl,thank you once again the great Dr Obodo for what you have done for me, if you are out there passing through any of this problems listed below: 1) If you want your ex back. (2) if you always have bad dreams. (3) You want to be promoted in your office. (4) You want women/men to run after you. (5) If you want a child. (6) You want to be rich. (7) You want to tie your husband/wife to be yours forever. (8) If you need financial assistance. (9) Have you been scammed and you want to recover you lost money . (10)Cure of HIV and AIDS contact: drobodo55@gmail.com

Posted by: Tracceey | July 19, 2014 6:43 AM    Report this comment

My Name is TRACY, From New York,USA. I wish to share my testimonies with the general public about what this man called Dr Obodo Agunechemba has just done for me , this man has just brought back my lost Ex husband with his great spell, I was married to this man called Steven we were together for a long time and we love each other but when I was unable to give him a child after 2 years,he left me and told me he can't continue anymore then I was now looking for ways to get him back until a friend of mine told me about this man. My friend gave his email to me and asked me to contact him but I didn't want to cos I doubted at first but later reconsidered cos it's so rear for a man to be as powerful like she said. So I contacted her through this email (drobodo55@gmail.com) You won't believe this when I contacted this man and told him my problems he cast the spell and my ex came back begging on his knees and asking me to forgive him. Not only that after a month I miss my monthly flow,when I went to my doctor,he confirm that I am pregnant so I told my self that I will testify to the whole wide world about the wonders of the powerful if I give birth successfully. I am so happy today cos I am a mother of a bouncing baby girl,thank you once again the great Dr Obodo for what you have done for me, if you are out there passing through any of this problems listed below: 1) If you want your ex back. (2) if you always have bad dreams. (3) You want to be promoted in your office. (4) You want women/men to run after you. (5) If you want a child. (6) You want to be rich. (7) You want to tie your husband/wife to be yours forever. (8) If you need financial assistance. (9) Have you been scammed and you want to recover you lost money . (10)Cure of HIV and AIDS contact: drobodo55@gmail.com

Posted by: Tracceey | July 19, 2014 6:40 AM    Report this comment

BEWARE OF SCAMS!!! DR ELIMI IS THE SPELL ONLY CASTER TO TRUST! ( elimispelltemple@gmail.com ) will be of great help to you. I never believed in spell casting but After 4 years of dating my hobby, he left me because I lost my womb . I felt like my life was about to end I almost committed suicide, i was emotionally down for a very long time. Thanks to the spell caster called Dr Elimi whom i met online after my friend Tracy told me how he has helped her. She testified about how Dr Elimi brought back her Ex lover in less than 3 days and reversed the effect of her lost womb, and at the end of her testimony she dropped Dr Elimi email address. After reading all these,I decided to give Dr Elimi a try. I contacted him via email and explained my problems to him. In just 3 days, my Hubby came begging. We resolved our issues, and we are even happier than before, am pregnant now to God be the glory. Dr Elimi is really a gifted man and i will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man... Come to think of it I didn't pay much and all I have to do is send him little 250 dollars which he used in providing the materials used for the spell. Even my pastor said that God works mysteriously, that some men are used by God to help others. If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster to solve all your problems for you. Contact Dr Elimi anytime, he is the answer to your problems. Here's his contact elimispelltemple@gmail.com

Posted by: sandra martins | July 17, 2014 10:49 PM    Report this comment

BEWARE OF SCAMS!!! DR ELIMI IS THE SPELL ONLY CASTER TO TRUST! ( elimispelltemple@gmail.com ) will be of great help to you. I never believed in spell casting but After 4 years of dating my hobby, he left me because I lost my womb . I felt like my life was about to end I almost committed suicide, i was emotionally down for a very long time. Thanks to the spell caster called Dr Elimi whom i met online after my friend Tracy told me how he has helped her. She testified about how Dr Elimi brought back her Ex lover in less than 3 days and reversed the effect of her lost womb, and at the end of her testimony she dropped Dr Elimi email address. After reading all these,I decided to give Dr Elimi a try. I contacted him via email and explained my problems to him. In just 3 days, my Hubby came begging. We resolved our issues, and we are even happier than before, am pregnant now to God be the glory. Dr Elimi is really a gifted man and i will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man... Come to think of it I didn't pay much and all I have to do is send him little 250 dollars which he used in providing the materials used for the spell. Even my pastor said that God works mysteriously, that some men are used by God to help others. If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster to solve all your problems for you. Contact Dr Elimi anytime, he is the answer to your problems. Here's his contact elimispelltemple@gmail.com

Posted by: sandra martins | July 17, 2014 10:47 PM    Report this comment

BEWARE OF SCAMS!!! DR ELIMI IS THE SPELL ONLY CASTER TO TRUST! ( elimispelltemple@gmail.com ) will be of great help to you. I never believed in spell casting but After 4 years of dating my hobby, he left me because I lost my womb . I felt like my life was about to end I almost committed suicide, i was emotionally down for a very long time. Thanks to the spell caster called Dr Elimi whom i met online after my friend Tracy told me how he has helped her. She testified about how Dr Elimi brought back her Ex lover in less than 3 days and reversed the effect of her lost womb, and at the end of her testimony she dropped Dr Elimi email address. After reading all these,I decided to give Dr Elimi a try. I contacted him via email and explained my problems to him. In just 3 days, my Hubby came begging. We resolved our issues, and we are even happier than before, am pregnant now to God be the glory. Dr Elimi is really a gifted man and i will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man... Come to think of it I didn't pay much and all I have to do is send him little 250 dollars which he used in providing the materials used for the spell. Even my pastor said that God works mysteriously, that some men are used by God to help others. If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster to solve all your problems for you. Contact Dr Elimi anytime, he is the answer to your problems. Here's his contact elimispelltemple@gmail.com

Posted by: sandra martins | July 17, 2014 10:47 PM    Report this comment

Oh my God, I'm so glad to tell everyone the real thing that happen to me...My name is EMILIANO BABARAH. If i refuse to share this testimony it means i am selfish to my self and to people i love so much whom might have similar problems, March 16th about something 7:23pm after taken our dinner my husband got crazy started calling a lady name Melisa I love you, i was so mad and started crying like a baby...then my husband left home for the idiot called Melisa, and never return back home then i believed when he uthen nderstand his self he will surly come back to apology, but instead he left me So i complained to my friend she told me she was having such problems in her marriage until she was introduce to DR ORIOMON who specializes in bringing back broken homes and broken marriages DR ORIOMON cast a spell for me in May 4th surprisingly my husband came home May 6th apologizing that i should forgive him that it will never happen again, i was so glad and gave the thanks to DR ORIOMON who save my marriage, if you are having similar problem you can contact him and His email address is (oriomonspiritualtemple@yahoo.com) you can still save your marriage if u really love your husband.

Thanks EMILIANO BABARAH_USA

Posted by: sandra martins | July 11, 2014 5:25 PM    Report this comment

GREAT FATHER

HOW DR.ORIOMON HELP ME BRING BACK MY EX HUSBAND BACK TO ME

hello to the every one on this forum ; am here to share my experience with dr oriomon about what he just did for me last week , for helping to reunited with my ex lover Mavis who broke up with me after 2 years of relationship because of his families did not like our relationship . but after Dr oriomon of oriomonspiritualtemple@gmail.com has done his wonderful work for me i was so shock when i saw Mavis calls on phone asking me to come back to him that him is ready to stay with me and beg his families to love our relationship and he actually did so and with a support from DR ORIOMON his parents that never wanted to see both of us promise to sponsor our wedding by December as we are planing now . so with this great work done for me by DR oriomon i promise not to stop telling others about his good work in my life , so if any one also need his help here i will advice you contact him to via (oriomonspiritualtemple@gmail.com) bye

CLARA BENJAMIN _ CANADA

DR.ORIOMON THE GREAT MAN OF ALL SPELL CASTER

Posted by: sandra martins | July 11, 2014 5:22 PM    Report this comment

I have a Boston Terrier 2 years old named Tobby, this dog gave me many problems. It ate my shoes, urinated in the room, the furniture stank. A teach my dog to behave with some training videos I found online. Pay 1 dollar for a trial period of 3 days. And 37 monthly payment, but worth every penny. My dog ​​is very well behaved, and does not make those deviltries and I have taught him many tricks. This is the location where I found the training: www.theonlinedogtrainers.com

Posted by: misard | June 20, 2014 8:15 AM    Report this comment

I feel so disheartened after reading this article. I just took on a dog from another owner who couldn't look after her anymore and I think this is what has triggered her seperation anxiety. I don't know if its mild or severe, but when we leave to go to the shop for 20-30 mins she will begin barking and trying to escape from the house which makes me think its SA. The only trouble is that I and the person i'm living with have to work so Betty is on her own for 8 hours twice a day. I don't have anyone who would be willing to sit with her for that long =\ So any training I do will just be set back by this departure? Is it impossible to treat a dog for SA if you leave them on their own? I just cant see any light at the end of the tunnel its so sad

Posted by: jijilicious | May 21, 2014 7:09 AM    Report this comment

My name is Adams Bella, i live and work in Oxfordshire, UK. My life is back!!! After 2 years of Broken marriage, my husband left me with two kids, I felt like ending it all, i almost committed suicide because he left us with nothing, i was emotionally down all this while. Thanks to a spell caster called Dr.Trust of Ultimate spell cast which i met online. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet, I came across several of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb,cure cancer,and other sickness, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and also spell to get a good paid job so on. He is amazing, i also come across one particular testimony, it was about a woman called Vera, she testified about how he brought back her Ex lover in less than 2 days, and at the end of her testimony she dropped his email.After reading all these, I decided to give it a try. I contacted him via email and explained my problem to him. In just 48hours, my husband came back to me. We resolved our issues, and we are even happier than ever.Dr.Trust you are a gifted man and i will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man. If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster, Try him anytime, he is the answer to your problems. you can contact him on (Ultimatespellcast@gmail.com or Ultimatespellcast@yahoo.com) or call him +2348156885231. he is the best caster that can help you with your problems.

Posted by: adams bella | May 19, 2014 1:37 PM    Report this comment

Brilliant article. I've just written a review for Malena DeMartini-Price's new book Treating Separation Anxiety in Dogs" on my blog.

Posted by: njr201 | April 26, 2014 10:39 AM    Report this comment

I have been dealing with SA with our almost 3 year old Klein poodle and 4 month old standard poodle. Today I successfully left them in our kitchen together for 25 min. I hope this will continue. We moved from Germany to to Virginia and I believe that set it off. The howling and barking were terrible. Our older dog still acts crazy when we come back home. I hope it gets better!

Posted by: Kelli V. | April 14, 2014 1:08 PM    Report this comment

This article was read while crying as I too am currently experiencing this debilitating disorder. However mine is couple with inter-dog aggression. I have 3 Siberian Huskies, all female, 10 years, 5 years and 1 year. The puppy has had SA since we got her at 7 weeks. Crating is not an option as she additionally has barrier anxiety and any type of confinement from accessing humans throws her into full tilt. I too feel trapped, overwhelmed, helpless, depressed and now have my own anxiety issues because of this. My job is suffering, as I am required to travel at least once a month and I do not have the option of boarding her because of her SA. I don't have the support group of people to help out. I cannot find any active support groups online or elsewhere, and I don't know who to trust for behavioral therapy. Does anyone have any suggestions??

Posted by: Aprille V | March 3, 2014 11:16 AM    Report this comment

I've had my dog, Nikki a lab mix, for 12 years while growing up. Some of it I was away at college in another state, lived in a dorm nearby, and then eventually moved out to a place that I couldn't take her, but I could my other small dog. During those years when college and moving out was important my mom was her consistent person and the two small dogs she had. Shortly before I moved out, My dog began barking off and on throughout the night due to anxiety. My mom would get up and take her out 3-4 times a night thinking that's what he needed. She wanted to make sure someone was still there for her and wanted us up with her. But mom was moving, we decided that I move back into the house, so her anxiety wouldn't increase by moving. Mom took her two smaller dogs and I moved back in with my small dog and room mate. We soon realized the different pet dander now bothers my asthma and was making my room mate sick too. So we had to make accommodations for Nikki, we take more medicine but try to keep her outside or in the garage to minimize the dander. So nights she stayed in the garage, cuz my neighbors have made threatening letters in the past about her barking during the night. She barks all night in the garage. So we got ear plugs. Some nights she is fine and we barely hear her, cuz she is calmer then. And during the days when we are gone, she's in the garage too with my other dog. And they seem fine then, or at least better. So I tried them both in there, but it only gave my other dog anxiety. And she barks all night in the house too cuz we are asleep, so the fact it's the garage doesn't make that much of a difference. I've talked to my vet and we have tried to kinds of medicine. One the vet said is the best made he have breathing issues and vomiting, the next was xanax but it has only made her hyperactive. With these medicines, I have tried a crate training since my smaller dog did well in one. No luck, only would hurt herself til she was bleeding, plus he figured out how to get out of it. I have her food stuffed toy an she is not interested in any treats once I'm gone. So the vet just keeps asking me to wait and when these medicines are not helping in the process. They have made her have accidents and she is also tearing up the baseboard, door trim, and drywall. To the point, my worst fear, she ripped the drywall right into the house. So now there is a hole in my wall. My mom has tried being support stove by paying for the aids and medicine since I can't afford it. But everyone I know wants me to put her down cuz I can't train her, she's old, and her SA is only getting worse. I have a full time job and a night student. So any time I work, take classes, or sleep her SA is acting up. My family wants to help by making her disappear while I'm gone during the day. That way my stress and own anxiety will be gone. They say yes I may be upset at first, but later it will be ok cuz she will be at ease and so will I. And hearing it can be months to help her of not leaving, I can't do it. I have no support currently and no one can stay with her all the time, my room mate helps the most she's willing but her nerves are at end since she has no attachment or likes the dog ( but she stills takes her out, helps me clean up the messes, and gives her medicine when I'm not at home), plus I can't afford to take off when I can barely afford what I doing now. I would like to did her a home but I know people don't want to take in a dog with severe SA. I'm a lost but feel my parents will step in and decide what to do once they find out she ripped a hole in the wall.

Posted by: Unknown | October 6, 2013 5:05 AM    Report this comment

I went through severe SA when I lost one dog of a bonded pair (mother and daughter who had been together 13 years). I thought I was going to lose the remaining daughter through illness (would not eat or drink) injury or self mutilation. I was fortunate to find a lot of expert help and my employer was very supportive. The daughter was crate trained and suddenly could not tolerate being crated, when left alone at home she would injure or mutilate herself. Kissy was medicated, went back to obedience school, started getting lots and lots of exercise, met many new "friends", forced to eat enough to survive because I could not bring myself to let her go. I had to detail clean the house, yard, car and my office because catching a scent of her mother brought on hysterical and relentless searching (even though I had allowed her to sit with the deceased mother as recommended). She dug up a collar that had become lost in the yard many months ago and it derailed the progress temporarily. Pet sitters came and went, as did friends and coworkers. At 15 years of age she was still going strong and I gave in to getting a puppy. Kissy ran to greet the pup, picked it up and ran to the food bowl and ate every morsel, she washed her pup and then fell asleep curled around it. Then began the retraining (again) of Kissy crated and the puppy crated...at first next to each other...always increasing the distance until I could crate them in separate rooms. The pup and Kissy went on walks together, and once crating was working I could exercise them apart. I was a long and slow process. I lost Kissy at 16 1/2 years. I do not regret any of the time, expense or emotional challenge it took to make her life "livable" and eventually happy again. In a way I am glad that I did not just jump into getting a puppy because I learned how to work with a new dog to try and ensure I would not be repeating the experience when I lost Kissy. Having your dogs love each other is wonderful, but they each have to be able to stand alone. Everything in life is a lesson. I guess I needed this one. My two beautifully trained perfect girl dogs made me proud and confident in my abilties to solve dog related problems...and losing one broke my heart and handed me a nightmare. Working through the troubles taught me so much and brought back a higher level of humility and compassion for others dealing with SA. Yes, sometimes we create the problem....but sometimes we do not. And even if we did, we need kind hearts, understanding and support to work it all out.

Posted by: Chrisot3 | July 27, 2013 1:02 PM    Report this comment

You're story is very touching and Sam is lucky to have you! We adopted a hound mix (Gracey) from a local humane society about 2 1/2 years ago and have been struggling with her in similar ways ever since. She is now 3 years old and still destroys the house and herself when we leave, regardless of the amount of time. We "broke" her out of the crate 6 months ago but sadly have set it up again because she has not stopped chewing, eating, ingesting anything she can get to. She is harming herself by eating things (plastic hangers-which she still hasn't passed, fabric, shoes, books,etc.) and causing me so much heartache. I don't know why she does this- I work 3 days a week and my husband is in and out all the time. I've tried doggie day care, dog sitters, dog runners, kongs, music, etc. She gets A LOT of exercise consisting of runs, bike runs, fetch with the ball and "chasing" the birds (she can never catch them). She is super healthy, extremely fit and has a endless supply of energy. She is a really sweet girl who i describe as being "high maintenance" but my husband is at the end of his patience with her. I was in tears last night because we were only gone 1 hour and she destroyed 3 LARGE, very expensive textbooks (I'm also in school), obviously jumped on the counter and pulled the entire dish rack down and ate all the utensils including the handle of a very big knife, all the tupperware and a wooden bowl. About 6 months ago i decided she was lonely and i adopted a kitty sister (Minnie) for her to have some company. Gracey and Minnie love each other and play all the time until they both pass out but Gracey still has the energy and now i realize, the anxiety, to destroy the things around her which in turn, harms her. She has had the run of the house including a doggie door to let herself in and out of as she pleases, she has me home 4 days a week, she has Minnie, my husband ( Alpha to her) and all the exercise she could possibly need but it isn't enough!! I have always thought she is just bored but after reading your story- i'm pretty convinced she has anxiety. My husband is suggesting we give her away to a family or person who is home all the time with her. He loves her but really does not want to deal with the destruction any more. She will be crated as of today, when we leave the house- which saddens me because i know i am not helping her by doing this, but i don't know what else to do. I know i do not have the ability or resources to do what you have done with Sam. I'm going to make an appt. with my vet and talk to him about different options as well as try some of the routines you mentioned in your article. I just wanted to write in and acknowledge that it really is life changing and difficult to own a dog with these types of issues and now i know i'm not alone in my saddness or frustration. Thank you to everyone who shared their story.

Posted by: jamiety | July 8, 2013 9:42 AM    Report this comment

Hi, I read the article above, I hope the poor baby gets better soon. I have a terrier-chihuahua mix, I got him at 3 months old. He was used to my working my 8 hr days, or at least I thought he was, he cried and tried to get out the door with me, and tried blocking me every morning. He never destroyed anything in the house, however he cried and howled on & off all day. I have been home from work for almost a year (Lyme Disease) I can no longer leave him home alone, if I do he cries, shakes, and lays at the door until I return. when I get back home, he cries and whines as he says hello, he tries to get as close as he can to me and won't allow me to leave the room for the rest of the day. I feel so bad I have cried when I had to leave him. He is an excellent dog, listens well, stays by my side, never runs off. I have tried thunder coat, it didn't work for him. I have no idea why he has such anxiety, he also jumps sometimes as tho he has been hit. I have NEVER hit him, and I'm very understanding of his anxiety, I bring him Everywhere I go. I don't know what to do.

Posted by: Unknown | June 19, 2013 2:08 PM    Report this comment

I inherited a 15 year old dog when my mother passed away. 'Lucas' had never been left home alone until my mom passed away. When I got him I took him to work with me where he hated having to sit under my desk all day. Eventually I started leaving him home half the day where he could roam the house. One supplement that helped Lucas is "Happy" by Epic Pet Health. It helped with the separation anxiety and grief he was feeling from the loss of my mom. Now I have some freedom and he's happy at home where he feels safe and can relax. It works pretty quickly too.

We're still working on finding a dog walker that he will go outside with! LOL! He's a very loyal little guy. Worth every sacrifice and lifestyle change I've had to make. He's 18 now and I hope he lives a lot longer. Good luck Siam Sam! Luke and I are rooting for you!

Posted by: Amy S | April 29, 2013 1:37 PM    Report this comment

Never had an animal that had separation anxiety , but a niece of mine adopted a sweet dog at 3 years old . This was Chole's third home and she quickly found out why, you guessed right SA . But my niece just like you ,would never think of getting rid of her. She tried many thing talked about in all comment above. She asked me if I had any ideas. I told her she should try to find a Animal homeopath ( they are veterinarians that only practice ,homeopathy) .So she found one that happened to be out of state , luckily homeopaths don't have to see the animal to figure out what remedy is needed. I have used a doctor of homeopathy for years now for any problem I have had with my dog physically or mentally . It's never failed yet. Anyway she gave her Chole the remedy and she could not believe it . The behaves got less over a few days and then gone completely .That was two years ago . She called me two days ago and had to dose her again because the doctor told her that as soon as you see a hint of her doing that again dose her .but like I said two years went by with no problem, she dosed again, and again she's fine. I've also have witness my mothers dog respond to homeopathy. Tiger at 12 years old had been very fearful of thunder since about 1 year old . When I discovered homeopathy I had her do a phone consultation with the vet. He quickly sent out the remedy, we gave it , and the next time there was a storm,he had no reaction,remarkable! I know it sounds simple for such a great issue but it works. There is probably more than one remedy for that issue, so it would be best just to do a consult with a vet that practices "classical homeopathy" that means one remedy ,not a mixture of them.And they will want to know everything your dog exhibits ,mentally and physically ,truly amazing . This type of practice saved Chole, and my nieces pending marrige because her fiance was ready to give her an altamatum, him or the dog ,because Chole was destroying everything in ther house ,and bloodying herself on several occasions . I hope this helps. Georgia R

Posted by: Georgia R | April 27, 2013 10:58 PM    Report this comment

I am so impressed with your patience and dedication. Luckily I have never been faced with that level of SA in the dogs I foster for the local shelter. I too always get the question, can't you just crate them, my current dog only had minor injuries from the last time he was left alone in a crate. He is okay as long as he has my dogs as company.

Thank you for the invaluable information.

Linda

Posted by: Linda B | April 27, 2013 10:13 PM    Report this comment

As a professional Animal Communicator, my wife and I ask client's animals where the beginning of their separation anxiety issue started. It is when we know what the pet is suffering from - the source of where all these pent-up separation feelings began, that we can then address and help fix the separation anxiety issues - no matter how severe the problems may appear. Many times separation anxiety symptoms appear with rescued pet that has been in one or two previous families who may have created the situation long before you adopted your pet. It's no one's fault, but it's time to get proper help for your furry family member. We can address issues going back as far as your pet need to and begin the journey to healing. It often only takes understanding to help heal separation anxiety. There are more behavioral steps once you know what the issues are, however, knowledge of the problem is always the key to the solution - otherwise you can only guess at what your pet is reacting and what might help. Check out our web site for our wonderful testimonials and more info on help with dog behaviors at http;//animalhealings.com/dog-behavior.html

Posted by: AnimalHealings | April 27, 2013 4:29 PM    Report this comment

I am absolutely full of admiration for all of you ,who have helped your SA dogs over their many hurdles. About 15 years ago,I had a co-worker,who wound up euthanizing her Min Pin because of this problem.At the time I thought ,she caused the behavior in the first place ,and then made the dog pay.I might have judged to harshly. I'm so lucky with my dogs (one at the time),not to have encountered SA at all.

Posted by: Christa K | April 27, 2013 1:35 PM    Report this comment

I need a support group! I live in Pheonix and am stuck at home due to my dog s extreme separtion anxiety. He now knows how to brake out of my house by braking thru glass windows. I have done and practiced everything i can possibly think of. HE had blood work done today and our next step is bringing a dog trainer out to the house and am hoping to get him on meds so I can slowly crate train him. Any advise on how i can find a support group would be greatly appreciated.

Posted by: Natalie M | April 10, 2013 3:37 PM    Report this comment

Thank you for writing this. It brought back a lot of memories and even made me cry. Our Akita suffered with SA. I wasn't a very educated dog owner so I made a lot of mistakes when it was in it's early stages and easily treatable. When we finally got on the right path we too had the help of friends. We could have never done it without them. She spent a lot of time with friends at their houses, in their cars, on their boats in summer and even hanging out at our local bar. Her social calendar was full! When she had to be home alone for an hour or two between our departure to work and a friend picking her up it would sometimes take me hours to leave the house. I remember the day, months into her rehabilitation, that our friend said that when he arrived to pick her up he could see her through a window sound asleep on the living room carpet. I cried with joy! Rehabilitating SA is a long journey that requires total commitment. Good for you for starting a support group and a Facebook page. People dealing with their dogs SA need all the support they can get. Please post a link to the Facebook page. I'd love to join! Again, thank you.

Posted by: Senanigans | April 8, 2013 9:46 AM    Report this comment

Hi What a good article and a happy ending I have a patterdale terrier bitch who is nearly 5 years old, for the last 12 months it has just been me and her, even living with my partner we had this problem. At night she will not sleep inher crate, she goes in the crate during the day but at night she barks and cries, I have had trainers out to her and spoke to many more, I live in a caravan and it isnt an option ignoring her as I am having complaints about her. I love my dog and realise that I may have added to her problem with being with every day and night, like I say she is ok during the day, any help appreciated

Many thanks Dawn Pollard

Posted by: dawniemeg | March 19, 2013 4:04 PM    Report this comment

What a great article! Coping with severe SA really does require a lot of support and it's wonderful to hear about someone who has shared this experience.

We've been dealing with severe separation anxiety since we adopted our dog in July. We were making slow, steady progress until we moved and my husband got a new job that meant there were more days home alone. We tried leaving him alone in the crate for a full day and had a major setback -- he had been able to stay home alone in his crate for 2-3 hours, and after panicking from being in there too long, he now will start to get anxious after 10 minutes. Home alone outside the crate is the same story -- he gets very destructive and anxious. At 80 pounds, he can really do some damage.

Staying patient with very slow progress is the biggest challenge -- we learned that the hard way by trying to rush into a long day home alone and then experiencing a setback. It's great to hear others have worked through it and have come out on the other end!

Posted by: FG | January 30, 2013 4:16 PM    Report this comment

I recently adopted a rescue and quickly realized something was wrong. Our bonding week where i rarely left the house and spent a lot of time with him was great. but when reality joined our party, and i had to go back to work - i was amazed. He's not resorted to hurting himself, or chewing through metal, but if un-crated, he'll go to the bathroom, whimper, howl, bark for hours. My poor neighbors.. This article has been helpful, though i'm wondering how long did this entire transformation take? How long did it take for your SA dogs to show signs of improvement? Im saddened because i can't afford 8hr dog sitting, most of my friends and family work, and so having him attended to 24hrs a day feels impossible. Reading this helps me to know im not alone, but it also has frightened me because as a single person, i can't afford to quit my job and certainly can't afford to pay for private sitters, and definitely can't ask any friend or family member to do the same. I've not tried medication yet, but it seems that even with medication - the symptoms remain, so can anyone explain how they actually help? *deep breath* Thanks for your help.

Posted by: franksmom | January 23, 2013 12:46 PM    Report this comment

I have just become a widow of 3 years. I got married just before I was 21 yrs old, been married until my sweethearts death in 2009. I will be 60 Sept 25th ! I can relate to your sweet dog. Now its just me and my Dusty 2 no one else. The ONLY time when I leave him is to get grocerys. He has always had a window to look out and sees when when I leave and come home. It has really helped with his sepration problems. I don't have a social life, I don't need one. This is how I communicate with people. When we are young, we don't think about what could happen. Dusty 2 is my life and my reason to live. Dogs are the best friends that we could ever have.

Posted by: Dustysmama | September 10, 2012 9:57 AM    Report this comment

This is an excellent article on this problem . I adopted a rescue dog 18 months ago.The foster home stated he had no separation anxiety . Wrong! The first day i had to go to work, he tried to chew his way out of the crate.He would not touch the stuffed KongsI left for him like all my other dogs enjoyed when left alone. I was devastated and knew he could not be left alone from this point on until we got a grip on this behavior. Luckily I had a great vet who gave great advice and was willing to start meds, Clomicalm, immediately .I implemented the type of strategies mentioned in the article . I took a week off of work and lined up an excellent daycare.I went super slow, realizing any setback would be a major problem.i disregarded any advice form others who tried to minimize the problem.In addition to desensitzation and alone training in the house , we went to obedience class and agility class to build confidence and learn to work away from me. I was lucky in that he felt safe in my truck and he would stay happily in it,so he could go along with me when the weather was cool. I took him to dog friendly places and my friend allowed me to bring him to her Pilates studio so I could do pilates for sanity! He can now be left alone , enjoying stuffed Kongs and other special toys until I return .He is a calm, confident ,really cool dog! It is a lot of work to implement this type of program, but it can succeed.

Posted by: CAROL M | September 8, 2012 8:30 PM    Report this comment

Hello wise people, can you help me determine what is 'normal' for my 13 month old bichon frise, relative to her hyper-greeting behavior? First of all, you should know that we walk and play ball for 1 to 1 1/2 hours every morning. She is confined to the kitchen, which is large and receives daylight, while I go to work, from 12 noon to 8 or 9pm. She makes no complaints when I leave (beside pouting), and she usually gets a new bully stick. She is never destructive. My dog walker takes her out at 3 and 6. When I get home, I can hear her high-pitched squeal as soon as the key is in the door. When I enter, she cannot contain herself, jumping up on the fence, screeching, tail wagging, etc. Lately, I have been trying to ignore her until she quiets down, she sits until I open the gate, and then she is all over me -- jumping, wiggling, madly trying to kiss me -- for a looong 3 - 5 minutes. Can I be confident that this is merely puppy exuberance that will mellow with maturity, or does it seem more serious to anyone.

Posted by: Sarah W | September 8, 2012 12:53 PM    Report this comment

Wow. I have a Jack Russel that has been through the Petsmart obedience series and he has been with me from 10 weeks old. He had somewhat intense seperation anxiety issues for about the first year. Today he is 2.5 years and I never leave him completely alone (people, other dogs) because I can see it stresses him out, but I could leave him alone if I had to without damage to property or self mutilation.I think worst case would be an episode of K9 Colitis. This story about Sandi's journey with Sam was very enlightening to me in relation to the extremes of SA. In dealing with my own dog's less extreme SA issue I found that communicating with the animal as the Alpha male, "I have to get provisions for the pack you stay here and guard the cave" was a vibe my Jack Russel reluctantly responded to. Every work day we would participate in our little work day ritual. He will get up with me, stand outside the shower while I take my shower, watch me put on my work clothes, share a little breakfast with me, walk with me to the door where I tell him to "stay." He knows this means I have to go away from the house somewhere alone and that I always return 10 or 12 hours later. Obedience school is essentially learning to communicate and this has been helpful with my Jacks SA issue. Socialization has also been a valuable tool. Taking him to the park, and wherever I can (Lowes, Tractor Supply) to let people pet him and let him interact with other friendly dogs has given him a type of mature confidence.

Posted by: Jim M | August 31, 2012 12:35 AM    Report this comment

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